My journey From Narcissist prey to a state of Nirvana

Lucy Latham

Based on a true story. 

D spells Dominic and D also spells Danger. You never know what’s next when you embark on a journey with a married man, especially if he is a narcissist. Dom is the ultimate charmer, and incredibly handsome, which is why I was tempted by the forbidden fruit in the first place. 

This book is published two years after the relationship ended and includes reflections over my state of mind at the time and now. Before Dom, I was thought I was in a good place, but I found myself shouting at myself when reading my messages, thoughts and feelings back in 2019. I was obviously running on empty and believed that Dom would fill that void. You, too, will probably cringe and shout at me. After just four months with Dom, my mental health hit rock bottom and I aged four years in four months. Ladies, the best anti-ageing remedy you will find is to avoid the initial charms of narcissists.

You couldn’t make up some of Dom’s enormous lies and indeed they would be wasted if they remained hidden away, festering, inside my broken heart. Will you be able to you spot Dom’s compulsive lies before I did? I published this book as a fiction, based on Dom’s fabrication of the truth. 

I am fascinated in psychology and have applied some of my learning to Dangerous Dominic. With the help of a friend, we spotted the signs that Dom was a narcissist, but unfortunately it was too late, and I had already been hooked!

Before we continue, here’s a heads-up. If you are in a relationship and your partner suddenly starts offering to do the shopping, play golf or start training for the marathon, and you know this is out of character for him, you can pretty much bet that he is up to no good. In this case, Dom told his wife he was shopping, or at golf when he was grooming his potential lover – me. You may have heard of multi-channel marketing, you will now discover, multi-channel narcissist communications.

Over the past two years, I have also learned that I am an Empath, and snaring empaths are like a lottery win for a narcissist. Chapter 10 is packed full of advice if you suspect you are about to enter or are in a relationship with a narcissist partner. It also points you away from danger. I wish I had read Chapter 10 before my relationship with Dangerous Dom.

One last note, two years ago, I started writing a blog, but found that it was far healthier to get on with my life and focus on more positive thoughts goals.

You will see I did get my revenge and I have now moved on. I don’t feel bitter because Dom led me to a spiritual life, and I am much happier.

I refuse to identify as a ‘narc victim’ and prefer to think that I’ve transformed from narcissist prey to a state of nirvana.